1. Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda Versus Me: Recognizing Regret
2. Oh, the Places We Go! Hiding from the Sins We Commit
3. Doing a Whole Lot of Nothing: Avoiding the Messes of others
4. I Want What I Have and I Want What You Have Too: Stealing Your Own Life
5. Hiding in a Stack of Fig Leaves: When Someone Else's Sin Tries to Write Your Story
6. What's in the Vault? Compartmentalizing as a Way to Silence the Past
7. The Truth, the Whole Truth, and Nothing but the Truth: The Confession Cure
8. Truce like a River? The Peace That Crosses Our Dividing Walls
9. When the Past Becomes the Present: Why Our History Still Tells Tales
10. All Things Work Together For...: The Story of the Sequel to Our "If Onlys"
11. Running with the Pack: When Everyone Is (Just a Little Bit) Responsible, No One Is Responsible
Appendix A: Counseling Q & A
Appendix B: Key Scriptures Featured in Each Chapter