The structure and foundation of a good marriage
No longer cruising down the river : the early stage of adjusting to disability
Practical solutions to practical problems
Communicating and problem-solving as a couple
Romance and sexual intimacy
Negotiating and implementing livable roles
Stress management and coping strategies (or don't forget to breathe!)
Heartfelt conflicts : opposing views on protection, expectations, and helping your child
Supports outside of your family
Remarriage : the need to do it differently
Learning from long-term marriages
Appendix 1 : More advice from parents
Appendix 2 : Experiences transformed into poetry
Appendix 3 : Participant responses to selected survey items.